A Taste of Failure

Bitter! We can  answer, bitter! To describe what is a taste of failure. Suck, disappointment, regret are others perfect ingredients to serve the best dish of failure. Who’s anyone on this planet that want to taste a failure? Nobody would.

Each of us will have same expectations, the same hope about everything we do which is things get it done, success! Not just an expectations in positive ways but also in negative ways. Indeed! Thief, robber, terrorists must have a good expectations every time they will do their action. That’s sucks for us hahaha. But then they got arrested and that will gonna a perfect taste of failure of them for us! Yummy! You do something you get something. In every single thing you do, there come rewards or there come punishment. That’s a formula of life. God invented those formula.

Nah, everybody must have an expectations to be success for their plans. School, study, work, friendships, love, family. We want to be success in every single thing we do. In my last article i wrote about when things are moving to the wrong expectations. So when an expectations of success turn to wrong expectations, what it would gonna be? Failure! We all ever tasted what is failure.

Failure comes to moment when we aren’t expected or we have predict that our plan will turn to failure, that’s a different story anyway. But, failure would love to visit your plan. What are you gonna do?

Failure is Process

Bold that words in your mind! Failure is only temporary not a final result. 

Failure is a test of your plan to test your plan so you will have a great result of your plan.

Failure is turning point to show you that you have the wrong plan.

Failure is a part of process inside your plan. 

When you realize that failure is only matter of process, you won’t get fall. I mean fall into long a deep hole. Why? Because you have positive thing in mind to boost up all things what you’ve got to make your plan go to the right way according to what it’s planned. 

It’s  a process that give you space and times to working on the process itself. When you meet failure, your plan will stop, for a while. You can’t continue your plan if the way you working on your plan is bring you to a failure. You need to think back, evaluate, find out what is the main cause of those failure. It’s a good test of your plan, test for yourself. So you will know and learn to handle problems. When you already know and find the answer of the problems, your plan will back in the right track with the right direction and ‘weapon’ to bring you  to the final result  that you planned on your plan, success. 

You have the wrong plan! You do want to be as in your plan. You fill up your plan with a huge obsession that you really want it to be. But you know sometimes an obsession doesn’t fit with you or people surround you. Your obsession may kill you. 

People with huge obsession that even it’s bigger than themselves will use every ways to get their obsession. Sometimes they don’t care if negative ways is the way. When you do something that isn’t for you, then you will never get that. You always meet the failure. 

Failure will slap you hard to make you realize that what thing are you doing right now isn’t good for you and for others who surround you.  

Failure is not bad as it seems. It’s not always taste bitter, a bittersweet! If we look the failure only in the surface, we will just see how bad is it and how bitter is it. But we need to swim or get sink to learn the failure. 

Why do we need to learn the failure? i’ve said above, failure gives us more advantage than disadvantage. It will stop us from our plan, but it just a while. Instead it will gives us a time to look back to find out what is missing. Then we can put but what is the missing part to complete the puzzle of our plan. But somehow failure will stop our plan for good, an obsession will blind the mind. A plan with blind obsession will never fit with person who lives within . This is the part where life is treating us, take us to place where are we meant to be in this life. 

We need to be positive. It will makes us to keep stay in the right way. So we won’t get lost just because we have a failure. 

Failure is only step of a process that you have to get through on it. Failure taste bitter but when you come out from the surface you will find out sweet taste of failure.

A taste of failure? bittersweet with more sugar :)