Don't Ever Turn Your Back On Your Family Even When They Do

Vin Diesel said “you don’t turn your back on family, even when they do” in Fast and Furious 6 when he had a conversations with the late Paul Walker , after scene when Dom got shot by Letty and Bryan said to “let Letty go”. Not gonna explain the movie, you better watch the movie by yourself. From that story, there is something good for us to learn, we all ever had a problem in our own family.   And if you haven’t one yet you might be have one someday, don’t mean to hope something bad but problem will always be there. With or without you realize, problems always around you. It’s like waiting on your door, even we don’t pull the trigger, they will come by itself. Wise men say, we grow up from problems, problems make us better. But if we know how to deal with them. How we can make a good deal with problems? Sometimes there is a problem that we can’t  handle it by ourselves. We need help from other people, you might think where you will find the good help? Your home, your family. Because that’s where you belong. Home is where the help is J

Maybe, we ever find some case or story from media or even real life around us that, somebody from a family had a trouble then went away from family. Quite pity story but that’s happen a lot around us. We need family, we need friends, we can’t be alone in this life.

When you have a problem in the family, whatever your problems are. Just don’t ever have a thought to go away from the family although in that moment your family just so MAD with you or even you are so MAD with your family. Just take a break, both of you and your family need a time to settle. We never know when will the break time is over, it could be short and could need a long time. Maybe it depends on what the matter is, just make sure that you do really want to change the situation become better. You do really want to make it better. Why? If it’s the break turn to long time, you need that words to maintain the process.  “Change needs process” “Process needs an act”

You can’t just change with saying i want change, i’m sorry, please forgive me. If you had made a big mistake, words aren’t enough to complete the process. You need to move the mountain, you need a big big action to move the mountain. You need to convince your family with your action. Because it could your family are just hard to forgive you. When it’s happen, they might turn their back on you but don’t turn your back on them. There is no such thing like ex family, ex son, ex daughter. If you were broke up with your boy/girl friend and you face a bitter fact that you can’t comeback to him/her. Well maybe she/he is not belong to you, right? J But if it’s your family, you have to die for them.

Family is something that worth to fight for, something that worth to die for. Family is where you belong. Don’t give up on your family when you made mistakes and hurts your family. You need blow something to heal the wound. You need to blow a trust. You have to make sure and convince your family put their trust back on you. But if you keep to abandon and ignore your family it’s only regret you will get in the future J