Vin Diesel said “you don’t turn
your back on family, even when they do” in Fast and Furious 6 when he had a
conversations with the late Paul Walker , after scene when Dom got shot by Letty and
Bryan said to “let Letty go”. Not gonna
explain the movie, you better watch the movie by yourself. From that story, there is
something good for us to learn, we all ever had a problem in our own family. And if you haven’t one yet you might be have
one someday, don’t mean to hope something bad but problem will always be there.
With or without you realize, problems always around you. It’s like waiting on
your door, even we don’t pull the trigger, they will come by itself. Wise men
say, we grow up from problems, problems make us better. But if we know how to
deal with them. How we can make a good deal with problems? Sometimes there is a
problem that we can’t handle it by
ourselves. We need help from other people, you might think where you will find
the good help? Your home, your family. Because that’s where you belong. Home is
where the help is J
Maybe, we ever find some case or
story from media or even real life around us that, somebody from a family had a
trouble then went away from family. Quite pity story but that’s happen a lot
around us. We need family, we need friends, we can’t be alone in this life.
When you have a problem in the
family, whatever your problems are. Just don’t ever have a thought to go away
from the family although in that moment your family just so MAD with you or
even you are so MAD with your family. Just take a break, both of you and your
family need a time to settle. We never know when will the break time is over, it
could be short and could need a long time. Maybe it depends on what the matter
is, just make sure that you do really want to change the situation become
better. You do really want to make it better. Why? If it’s the break turn to
long time, you need that words to maintain the process. “Change needs process” “Process needs an act”
You can’t just change with saying
i want change, i’m sorry, please forgive me. If you had made a big mistake,
words aren’t enough to complete the process. You need to move the mountain, you
need a big big action to move the mountain. You need to convince your family
with your action. Because it could your family are just hard to forgive you.
When it’s happen, they might turn their back on you but don’t turn your back on
them. There is no such thing like ex family, ex son, ex daughter. If you were
broke up with your boy/girl friend and you face a bitter fact that you can’t
comeback to him/her. Well maybe she/he is not belong to you, right? J But if it’s your
family, you have to die for them.
Family is something that worth to
fight for, something that worth to die for. Family is where you belong. Don’t
give up on your family when you made mistakes and hurts your family. You need blow
something to heal the wound. You need to blow a trust. You have to make sure
and convince your family put their trust back on you. But if you keep to
abandon and ignore your family it’s only regret you will get in the future J
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